Relationships are complicated and complex usually involve two individuals.Add a third person to the relationship and it will change the dynamics without fail.Out goes the trust and that exclusive bond of marriage or a long term partnership.Your
Lover's Triangle now becomes a web of secrets, lies and continuous deceit.How to manage the passion and pain created by your actions will become blueprints for what not to do to as your…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on July 7, 2010 at 8:30am —
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It is with great sorrow that I share my dearest friend Johnny Dergo passed away in Asheville North Carolina on March 27th 2010 from heart disease.I met Johnny better known as" Dergie" in 1994.He was instrumental in helping me to launch my Company Face Reality Inc believing that Infidelity was an issue important enough and necessary to share with anyone who cared to become more aware of the topic. His goal was to help keep marriages whole and relationships healthy regardless of this most…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on April 27, 2010 at 9:00am —
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It's essential to have specific terms defined for easier clarity while viewing this particular blog.
A love triangle usually involves a married couple and a third person. Usually one spouse in the marriage invites a third individual into the triangle without sharing it with their spouse .This third individual can be a player for a very short time or ends up as a possible lover for a long duration of time.This particular arrangement coins the setup a three sided triangle.The lovers in these…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on March 27, 2010 at 7:45am —
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Please stick to the subject of INFIDELITY.This is not a site for you to tout what you want to advertise. BANNERS are available to discuss.These blogs share opinions,stories and information to help people navigate through the trenches of infidelity. It's a serious issue and OUR BLOGS can be very helpful if used correctly.Whether you're here for yourself or for someone else CONGRATULATIONS FOR TAKING THE ESSENTIAL STEPS TO LEARN MORE ABOUT AN ISSUE THAT IS SO CONTROVERSIAL AND MISUNDERSTOOD!
Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on March 9, 2010 at 12:44pm —
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Apologize for not responding sooner to a blog posted about someone wanting to have an affair. Not here to judge or point fingers. My job as a professional is to help you learn accurate information.Become accountable to know what works and will not for you.Your fantasy of having an affair can become very real very fast! In fact, it's tough and very difficult to manage the passion but more of the pain that occurs. It will happen to you.Count on regrets and devastation. No escape for anyone even…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on March 9, 2010 at 10:00am —
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Last Friday Tiger stood in front of the world, his family' friends,business partners, the media and fans to finally share his pain, apology and his regrets.Was it enough? That's not really up to anyone to judge.Our society has created this glib look the other way reaction to a very serious social ill! Time for society to examine it's own behavior and accountibility.
INFIDELITY is soaring with no let up in site and is no longer a mans world.Why? The answer is quite simple...because it…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on February 22, 2010 at 10:30am —
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Spent much of the day listening, sharing and taking in Tiger's statements. Regardless of the opinions and everyone seems to have them about today ONLY TIGER HIMSELF, HIS ACTIONS AND SUFFICIENT TIME FOR PAINFUL SELF DISCOVERY COUNT. Tiger has taken that initial, ESSENTIAL STEP to truly start his healing and recovery.It begins first for him then for Elin, his family, dear friends,fans and sponsors. Everyone loves a winner and a comeback story that's heartfelt and real.. Many will count on him to…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on February 19, 2010 at 5:30pm —
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Whether you're reading this blog for yourself, friend, or someone else thanks for taking the time to learn more about infidelity. It's an issue that continues to soar in our society with no let up in sight. Extramarital affairs are highly exploited,very controversial and certainly discussed a great deal. You often wonder is my spouse doing it? Is my friend involved in an affair? What about my neighbor? Co-worker? Is she doing it? Should I do it? Why aren't I doing it? In the process you try to…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on February 5, 2010 at 8:16am —
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"With this ring I thee wed...to love and to cherish,"til death do us part." Sound familiar? You bet! That is until you become bored,unhappy with your spouse,feeling you're last on the list when your spouse insists differently.Well you get the picture and it gets uglier as time marches on.and on and on!!! Even those of you that share and seriously believe in your marriage vows at the time become disenchanted in your relationship down the line.You opt for a new storyline. Why not a different…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on January 26, 2010 at 10:03am —
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How amazing that one's timing is everything in life!! It's accountable for directly impacting and influencing your choices and the various kinds you often choose..Timing shapes your life in your relationships, your secrets, beliefs and certainly your experiences,Timing affects your interventions and actions and re-actions to information.It forces things to be revealed that you often want hidden..It actually influences just about everything you do. It doesn't matter who you are, where you live…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on January 21, 2010 at 10:40am —
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Each of us live our own journey.Many feel theirs could be better while others actually for the most part enjoy their ride. Sometimes it fits well and other times the journey becomes painful reflections during your self discovery.When you journal you create a blueprint of your past, your current circumstance and certainly helps you plot out your future.It's a search for the real you as you discover your beliefs, opinions, thoughts and feelings daily by your entries.It is private and done when…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on January 16, 2010 at 12:30pm —
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For years men have have been the culprits of philandering, cheating, whatever you care to label and call their infidelity. Paying a high price for their extra- curricular actions and activities continues to escalate. Divorce keeps courts busy and kids suffer from their Dad's escapades.Today males continue their insatiable appetite for variety only reinforcing that infidelity is here to stay with little let up if any in sight.
The male branded in his role as often unfaithful…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on January 8, 2010 at 10:32am —
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.Finally one of the best kept secrets spilled! Just ignore my sarcasm as I share something most of us know and are quite aware of already .. Infidelity and betrayal have no boundaries of any kind. It actually doesn't matter who you or,where you live or who you might know. Whether you're an ordinary person, highly intelligent , just average or possibly, a celebrity,athlete or the spouse of one who cheats just not that important in the scheme of things. What is relevant though is that anyone at…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on January 6, 2010 at 3:43pm —
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It's a new day and a new year with the same stories of infidelity once again making news. Is there a possible similarity to the Letterman Saga and Tiger's Trysts other than just infidelity and betrayal? Tiger supposedly gave a great deal of hush money to some of his lovers for silence about their love triangles.Sounds like maybe extortion in a more lady like fashion to me...Hard to really know what's real and what's speculation regarding money given for quiet. Hardly the case looking at current…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on January 4, 2010 at 9:06am —
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my partner and i had been together since 2004. we met online and he came to my country for us to be together. but no he didnt want to marry. thats fine i said. even if we hadnt got married, we had lived together, as if we were. over the years i had discovered many things about him, and he, me. but the most important thing was that he is much too much of a playboy. online. or in real life. he's said to me more than once, he loves me. but he's not going to pander to my wishes of becoming a…
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Added by Connie D on January 3, 2010 at 2:52am —
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Like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a Happy and Healthy New Year. Spent quality time with friends and family that will be remembered for many months.Thankful for those times that soon become memories. That is until next Christmas rolls around.Also, finally had a chance to see some great movies. Splendid entertainment on all levels..A comedy, a musical and one drama were our choices and enjoyed by everyone.
Each film completely different yet woven into each was a common…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on December 29, 2009 at 6:30pm —
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Straight to the point and headlines our news. "Tiger eating cereal and watching cartoons." Now who really cares... No need for details and who's the fly on the wall? The culprit should be found.. There's a leak coming from the Tiger camp that needs to be plugged up!.Typical of what surrounds our current events these days.What's next for the greatest athlete??? What a sham Tiger's situation has become. It's out of the bag and each day another female reveals her tryst with the all American family…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on December 19, 2009 at 6:50am —
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For years Infidelity has been controversial,highly exploited and a choice of many from all parts of the country and abroad..This issue has involved a president, elected public officials,athletes,celebrities,and regular folks from all walks of life.Many have chosen and fallen to the lifestyle of secrets and devastation. Participants include the educated, professionals, blue collar workers,highly sophisticated, very wealthy, the young,the old,the very poor.Society wonders who is doing it? Should…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on December 6, 2009 at 9:26am —
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It is such a sad situation for Tiger and his family. In the web of it all comes his fans who listen in disbelief to Tiger's' other life unfolding. It appears that each day another person surfaces having a tryst with Tiger, some of longer duration.Hard to keep damage control afloat for him. What was this man thinking or most likely not..Money speaks volumes for his lovers? and his wife Elin. She actually holds her husband's future in limbo.A payback for the hurt,humiliation and downright…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on December 5, 2009 at 8:51am —
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Another celebrity has become the focus of betrayal. Probably the most famous athletic role model alive seen around the world. He has captured not only the skill of golf like no other but has the hearts of the young,old,rich and the poor everywhere.Tiger Woods is used to the spotlight but not in any way equipped or obviously comfortable with answering questions regarding the fallout from a possible extramarital affair.This shot heard round the world which I'm certain Tiger and his family wants…
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Added by Elissa Gough-Denels on November 30, 2009 at 9:48am —
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LOVER'S LOVE TRIANGLES
help needed!
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